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Donald Benson Alder

Donald Benson Alder

Male 1908 - 1993  (84 years)  Submit Photo / DocumentSubmit Photo / Document    Has more than 100 ancestors and one descendant in this family tree.

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  • Name Donald Benson Alder 
    Birth 4 Dec 1908  Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Male 
    Initiatory (LDS) 5 Mar 1946  SLAKE Find all individuals with events at this location 
    FamilySearch ID KWC4-W3L 
    Death 14 Mar 1993  Pleasant Grove, Utah, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Burial 17 Mar 1993  Mountain View Memorial Estates Cemetery, Cottonwood Heights, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
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    Person ID I313  mytree
    Last Modified 25 Feb 2024 

    Father George Alfred Alder, Jr,   b. 4 Jan 1874, Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 3 May 1940, Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 66 years) 
    Mother Elise Benson,   b. 10 Mar 1873, Logan, Cache, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 22 Aug 1937, Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 64 years) 
    Marriage 9 Oct 1895  Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F317  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Elsie Marie Loveland,   b. 22 Feb 1914, Ogden, Weber, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 11 Nov 2003, Pleasant Grove, Utah, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 89 years) 
    Marriage 9 Jun 1934  Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Children 
     1. Gordon Jerome Alder,   b. 1 Feb 1935, Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 20 Jun 1936, Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 1 year)
    Family ID F325  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 21 Apr 2024 

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 4 Dec 1908 - Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 9 Jun 1934 - Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsInitiatory (LDS) - 5 Mar 1946 - SLAKE Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 14 Mar 1993 - Pleasant Grove, Utah, Utah, United States Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBurial - 17 Mar 1993 - Mountain View Memorial Estates Cemetery, Cottonwood Heights, Salt Lake, Utah, United States Link to Google Earth
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  • Notes 
    • I entered the Provo MTC on March 3, 1993 headed for the New York Rochest e r mission. Bucky had already gone in the MTC headed for the Dominican R ep ublic, and so had our cousin, Matthew John Alder, headed for Texas . 3 cou sins in the MTC at the same time. Is it any wonder Grandpa chos e this mom ent to return to his heavenly home? I remember that Bucky an d I were mor e than a little worried about leaving because we had each do ne significan t amounts of tending Grandpa for Mom and Grandma, and wer e worried that M om wouldn't get a break with us gone. But we went with f aith that everyth ing would turn out okay. March 14, Sunday, I receive d a message that I ne eded to call home, and the news of Grandpa's deat h was quite a shock to m e. My companion, Sister Gonzales, and I went bac k to our room, and she sa t outside the room while I took some private ti me inside. I knelt down an d prayed and cried for some time. Sad that I w ouldn't be there for the fu neral, but full of faith that this was God' s will for our family. As I pr ayed, in my mind's eye, Grandpa came to me . He stood before me strong an d young, but his hair, his white beautifu l head of hair was still there . He told me that he didn't remember anyth ing about the years of senility , but that he had been told that I had co ntributed to taking care of him , and he was coming to say thank you. H e also seemed to be in a hurry, li ke there were other things he needed t o go do. And though he didn't say i t, I was given to know that his respo nsibility was to watch over Matthe w John, not Bucky nor I. It didn't bot her me, made sense that he was to w atch over his son's son, and I didn' t think to ask who would watch over m e. But he left me, and after that , I was okay. Heavenly Father knew I nee ded to hear from Grandpa, and th at experience taught me a lot about how h eaven works.
      I miss you Grandpa. See you again, hopefully not soon.