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Thomas Stearns Eliot

Thomas Stearns Eliot

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  • Name Thomas Stearns Eliot 
    Birth 26 Sep 1888  St. Louis, St. Louis, Missouri, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Male 
    FamilySearch ID L44M-VZY 
    Death 4 Jan 1965  Kensington, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Burial Church of St. Michael and All Angels' Church, East Coker, Somersetshire, England Find all individuals with events at this location 
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    Person ID I100287  mytree
    Last Modified 25 Feb 2024 

    Father Henry Ware Eliot,   b. 25 Nov 1843, St. Louis, St. Louis, Missouri, United States Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 8 Jan 1919, St. Louis, St. Louis, Missouri, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 75 years) 
    Mother Charlotte Champ Stearns,   b. 22 Oct 1843, Baltimore City, Maryland, United States Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 10 Sep 1929, Cambridge, Middlesex, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 85 years) 
    Marriage 27 Oct 1868  Lexington, Middlesex, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F31503  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Vivien Haigh-Wood,   b. 28 May 1888, Bury, Lancashire, England Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 22 Jan 1947, Harringay, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 58 years) 
    Marriage 26 Jun 1915  London, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F31505  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 5 May 2024 

    Family 2 Esmé Valerie Fletcher,   b. 17 Aug 1926   d. 9 Nov 2012 (Age 86 years) 
    Marriage 10 Jan 1957  London, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F31506  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 5 May 2024 

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 26 Sep 1888 - St. Louis, St. Louis, Missouri, United States Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 26 Jun 1915 - London, Middlesex, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 10 Jan 1957 - London, Middlesex, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 4 Jan 1965 - Kensington, Middlesex, England Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBurial - - Church of St. Michael and All Angels' Church, East Coker, Somersetshire, England Link to Google Earth
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    Eliot, Thomas S b1888 - Portrait

T. S. Eliot
    Eliot, Thomas S b1888 - Portrait T. S. Eliot

  • Notes 
    • Thomas Stearns Eliot, OM (26 September 1888 – 4 January 1965), was an es s ayist, publisher, playwright, literary and social critic, and "one of t h e twentieth century's major poets". Born in St. Louis, Missouri, in th e U nited States, to a prominent Boston Brahmin family, he moved to Engla nd i n 1914 at the age of 25, settling, working, and marrying there. He b ecam e a British subject in 1927 at the age of 39, renouncing his America n pas sport.

      Eliot attracted widespread attention for his poem "The Love Song of J. A l fred Prufrock" (1915), which was seen as a masterpiece of the Modernis t m ovement. It was followed by some of the best-known poems in the Engli sh l anguage, including The Waste Land (1922), "The Hollow Men" (1925), " Ash W ednesday" (1930), and Four Quartets (1943). He was also known for h is sev en plays, particularly Murder in the Cathedral (1935) and The Cock tail Pa rty (1949). He was awarded the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1948 , "for hi s outstanding, pioneer contribution to present-day poetry"

      Early life and education
      The Eliots were a Boston Brahmin family with roots in Old and New Englan d . Thomas Eliot's paternal grandfather, William Greenleaf Eliot, had mov e d to St. Louis, Missouri, to establish a Unitarian Christian church the re . His father, Henry Ware Eliot (1843–1919), was a successful businessm an , president and treasurer of the Hydraulic-Press Brick Company in St L oui s. His mother, Charlotte Champe Stearns (1843–1929), wrote poetry an d wa s a social worker, a new profession in the early 20th century.

      Eliot was the last of six surviving children; his parents were both 44 y e ars old when he was born. Eliot was born at 2635 Locust Street, a prope rt y owned by his grandfather, William Greenleaf Eliot. His four sister s wer e between 11 and 19 years older; his brother was eight years older . Know n to family and friends as Tom, he was the namesake of his materna l grand father, Thomas Stearns.

      Eliot's childhood infatuation with literature can be ascribed to sever a l factors. Firstly, he had to overcome physical limitations as a child . S truggling from a congenital double inguinal hernia, he could not part icip ate in many physical activities and thus was prevented from socializ ing w ith his peers. As he was often isolated, his love for literature de velope d. Once he learned to read, the young boy immediately became obses sed wit h books and was absorbed in tales depicting savages, the Wild Wes t, or Ma rk Twain's thrill-seeking Tom Sawyer. In his memoir of Eliot, hi s frien d Robert Sencourt comments that the young Eliot "would often cur l up in t he window-seat behind an enormous book, setting the drug of dre ams agains t the pain of living." Secondly, Eliot credited his hometown w ith fuellin g his literary vision: "It is self-evident that St. Louis aff ected me mor e deeply than any other environment has ever done. I feel th at there is s omething in having passed one's childhood beside the big ri ver, which i s incommunicable to those people who have not. I consider my self fortunat e to have been born here, rather than in Boston, or New Yor k, or London."

      From 1898 to 1905, Eliot attended Smith Academy, where his studies inclu d ed Latin, Ancient Greek, French, and German. He began to write poetry w he n he was fourteen under the influence of Edward Fitzgerald's Rubaiya t o f Omar Khayyam, a translation of the poetry of Omar Khayyam. He sai d th e results were gloomy and despairing and he destroyed them. His firs t pub lished poem, "A Fable For Feasters", was written as a school exerci se an d was published in the Smith Academy Record in February 1905. Als o publis hed there in April 1905 was his oldest surviving poem in manuscr ipt, an u ntitled lyric, later revised and reprinted as "Song" in The Har vard Advoc ate, Harvard University's student magazine. He also publishe d three shor t stories in 1905, "Birds of Prey", "A Tale of a Whale" an d "The Man Wh o Was King". The last mentioned story significantly reflect s his explorat ion of Igorot Village while visiting the 1904 World's Fai r of St. Louis . Such a link with primitive people importantly antedate s his anthropolog ical studies at Harvard.

      Eliot lived in St. Louis, Missouri for the first sixteen years of his li f e at the house on Locust St. where he was born. After going away to sch oo l in 1905, he only returned to St. Louis for vacations and visits. Des pit e moving away from the city, Eliot wrote to a friend that the "Missou ri a nd the Mississippi have made a deeper impression on me than any othe r par t of the world.

      Following graduation, Eliot attended Milton Academy in Massachusetts f o r a preparatory year, where he met Scofield Thayer who later publishe d Th e Waste Land. He studied philosophy at Harvard College from 1906 t o 1909 , earning his bachelor's degree after three years, instead of th e usual f our While a student, Eliot was placed on academic probation an d graduate d with a pass degree (i.e. no honours). He recovered and persi sted, attai ning a B.A. in an elective program best described as comparat ive literatu re in three years, and an M.A. in English literature in th e fourth. Fran k Kermode writes that the most important moment of Eliot' s undergraduat e career was in 1908 when he discovered Arthur Symons's Th e Symbolist Mov ement in Literature. This introduced him to Jules Laforgu e, Arthur Rimbau d, and Paul Verlaine. Without Verlaine, Eliot wrote, h e might never hav e heard of Tristan Corbière and his book Les amours jau nes, a work that a ffected the course of Eliot's life. The Harvard Advoca te published some o f his poems and he became lifelong friends with Conra d Aiken, the America n writer and critic.

      After working as a philosophy assistant at Harvard from 1909 to 1910, El i ot moved to Paris where, from 1910 to 1911, he studied philosophy at t h e Sorbonne. He attended lectures by Henri Bergson and read poetry wit h He nri Alban-Fournier. From 1911 to 1914, he was back at Harvard studyi ng In dian philosophy and Sanskrit. Eliot was awarded a scholarship to Me rton C ollege, Oxford, in 1914. He first visited Marburg, Germany, wher e he plan ned to take a summer programme, but when the First World War br oke out h e went to Oxford instead. At the time so many American student s attende d Merton that the Junior Common Room proposed a motion "that th is societ y abhors the Americanization of Oxford". It was defeated by tw o votes, af ter Eliot reminded the students how much they owed American c ulture.

      Eliot wrote to Conrad Aiken on New Year's Eve 1914: "I hate university t o wns and university people, who are the same everywhere, with pregnant w iv es, sprawling children, many books and hideous pictures on the walls.. . O xford is very pretty, but I don't like to be dead." Escaping Oxford , Elio t spent much of his time in London. This city had a monumental an d life-a ltering effect on Eliot for several reasons, the most significan t of whic h was his introduction to the influential American literary fig ure Ezra P ound. A connection through Aiken resulted in an arranged meeti ng and on 2 2 September 1914, Eliot paid a visit to Pound's flat. Pound i nstantly dee med Eliot "worth watching" and was crucial to Eliot's beginn ing career a s a poet, as he is credited with promoting Eliot through soc ial events an d literary gatherings. Thus, according to biographer John W orthen, durin g his time in England Eliot "was seeing as little of Oxfor d as possible" . He was instead spending long periods of time in London , in the compan y of Ezra Pound and "some of the modern artists whom th e war has so far s pared... It was Pound who helped most, introducing hi m everywhere." In th e end, Eliot did not settle at Merton and left afte r a year. In 1915 he t aught English at Birkbeck, University of London.

      By 1916, he had completed a doctoral dissertation for Harvard on "Knowle d ge and Experience in the Philosophy of F. H. Bradley", but he failed t o r eturn for the viva voce exam.

      Marriage
      Vivienne Haigh-Wood Eliot, passport photograph from 1920.
      In a letter to Aiken late in December 1914, Eliot, aged 26, wrote, " I a m very dependent upon women (I mean female society)." Less than fou r mont hs later, Thayer introduced Eliot to Vivienne Haigh-Wood, a Cambri dge gov erness. They were married at Hampstead Register Office on 26 Jun e 1915.

      After a short visit alone to his family in the United States, Eliot retu r ned to London and took several teaching jobs, such as lecturing at Birk be ck College, University of London. The philosopher Bertrand Russell too k a n interest in Vivienne while the newlyweds stayed in his flat. Some s chol ars have suggested that she and Russell had an affair, but the alleg ation s were never confirmed.

      The marriage was markedly unhappy, in part because of Vivienne's healt h i ssues. In a letter addressed to Ezra Pound, she covers an extensive l is t of her symptoms, which included a habitually high temperature, fatig ue , insomnia, migraines, and colitis. This, coupled with apparent menta l in stability, meant that she was often sent away by Eliot and her docto rs fo r extended periods of time in the hope of improving her health, an d as ti me went on, he became increasingly detached from her. The coupl e formall y separated in 1933 and in 1938 Vivienne's brother, Maurice, ha d her comm itted to a lunatic asylum, against her will, where she remaine d until he r death of heart disease in 1947. Their relationship became th e subject o f a 1984 play Tom & Viv, which in 1994 was adapted as a fil m of the sam e name.

      In a private paper written in his sixties, Eliot confessed: "I came to p e rsuade myself that I was in love with Vivienne simply because I wante d t o burn my boats and commit myself to staying in England. And she pers uade d herself (also under the influence of [Ezra] Pound) that she woul d sav e the poet by keeping him in England. To her, the marriage brough t no hap piness. To me, it brought the state of mind out of which came Th e Waste L and."