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Elizabeth Greaves "Lillie" Eames

Elizabeth Greaves "Lillie" Eames

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  1. 1.  Elizabeth Greaves "Lillie" EamesElizabeth Greaves "Lillie" Eames was born on 6 Jun 1884 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States (daughter of David Cullen Eames and Elizabeth Cluley Greaves); died on 28 Dec 1966 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; was buried on 31 Dec 1966 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.

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    • FamilySearch ID: KWZS-WCR
    • Initiatory (LDS): 27 Jan 1909, LOGAN
    • Census: 1910, Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States
    • Census: 1920, Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States

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    Death: Social Security Death Index, 1935-2014

    Frankie Nelson Whipple's Memories:

    ELIZABETH EAMES BENSON (Lillie)

    No one ever had a better Grandmother than mine was. She was a hug you , t alk to you, give you a cookie grandmother. She kept a drawer full o f odd s and ends of jewelry and other treasures to be played with and sh e alway s had a new set of kittens to be cuddled. She made each one of he r grandc hildren think that they were her favorite.
    Grandmother was born Elizabeth Eames in Preston, Idaho in 1895. She w a s born to farm people and spent all of her growing up years on a farm . Sh e married a farmer and expected to live all of her life as a farmer' s wif e. But the world was not kind to grandmother and she lost first a s on, th en her husband to illnesses. After grandpa died, she moved with he r famil y into a drafty old house in the small town of Preston. There sh e raise d her five daughters and one remaining son.
    Grandmother was a religious person. When we visited we were called t o p rayers on our knees before every meal, at bedtime, and in the morning . Sh e spoke of Jesus as if He were with us every moment. He seemed to b e he r personal friend. We really enjoyed going to church with her, becau se sh e sang the hymns with such enthusiasm that we could hardly keep fro m laug hing. Then after meetings she would tease us into retelling what w e had h eard, always with ice cream waiting as a reward for having listen ed.
    Grandmother liked having her family around her. It was a great occasi o n when we all got together for Thanksgiving or Christmas. My cousins a n d I would explore closets and corners of the house, play on her old pu m p organ on the stair landing, or make nuisances of ourselves in the kit ch en while she prepared meals. We were allowed to eat before the grown-u p s so we would stay out of their way during dinner and after-dinner conv er sation. But we didn't mind. We could hide on the stairs and listen t o eve rything that was said in the kitchen. I'm sure grandmother knew w e were t here, but she never shooed us away.
    I never had a birthday go by without a gift from grand-mother. Even wh e n I was grown she went me little books with a dollar tucked inside. I r em ember when she was very old her book of birthdays disappeared. I'm sur e o ne of her daughters took it to keep her from spending what little mon ey s he had on gifts for all of her large family, but she worried about i t an d fussed for months. It seemed to me a mean thing to have done to he r. Bu t I was not consulted.
    My grandmother died at the age of 83. She had become so old that she sc a rcely recognized her family. But even then she talked to me and asked h o w I was doing. She laughed and sang and seemed like a fairy-godmothe r . I cried at her funeral, and cry still when I think how much I miss he r.


    Grandma's Kitchen

    "She could make a third of a pound of hamburger go further than anyo n e I know."

    No family member ever went into Grandma's home without eating. Her kitc h en was large, a friendly place, with fresh oilcloth on the round oa k t a b le and home-canned fruits, jams, bread, vegetables bottled from t he sum mer harvest, and love sprinkled liberally around. She bustled whe n someon e came in. Cupboards would be opened, dishes set about, bottle s fetched f rom the pantry.

    "'You mustn't get fleshy,' she said, but she fed us whenever we came in t o the house."

    The kitchen was the center of everything good about coming to Grandma' s . Even before she had the modern conveniences of an electric range an d re frigerator, the coal burning stove spread its warmth into arms and l egs c hilled by the long trek from icy upstairs bedrooms. She was first u p in t he mornings and lighted a fire in its black belly, then set wate r to boi l for porridge. We often pulled a chair up close to the stove an d toaste d our fingers near its sides. By the time we were warmed enoug h to wash a nd dress the table would be set.

    "And she used to make a pudding that was called Blue Mange Pudding. Th a t was the best stuff in the world. And she made a little sauce that was .. .wonderful."

    We could not just eat in the mornings; prayer was an integral part of e v ery meal. Morning prayers were especially important as they prepa r e d u s for the coming day. We would kneel on the hard, cold floor, fo r t he stove seldom warmed anything below our knees, and bow our heads re vere ntly over the seats of the kitchen chairs, enduring a long, devout s uppli cation. Grandma was profuse in her gratitude to the Lord for her bl essing s, and she pleaded with Him earnestly that we might all be calle d to repe ntance. Mostly we children prayed for prayers to end that we mi ght get ba re knees off the chilly linoleum.
    Grandma kept one drawer in the china cabinet that we girls loved to exp l ore. It held old lipsticks, pieces of ribbon, an assortment of earring s , most without partners, pencils, and other tiny treasures begging t o b e played with. If the kitchen was not being used we could pull the dr awe r out onto the floor and explore its contents, but mostly we had to s tan d at the cabinet and take things out one at a time. When the family w as g athered for a holiday, we were rudely shooed out of the kitchen an d had t o leave the drawer behind.

    "I remember Thanksgiving with all the family gathered around the table."

    Grandma's kitchen became everything good in the world at Thanksgiving . I t was crowded with aunts, all stirring, opening, basting, and scoldin g ch ildren for getting underfoot. Wonderful smells beckoned us even as w e wer e fussed at to leave. We would hang about in the doorways savorin g the od ors of roast turkey, hot parker house rolls, saged-dressing, an d pumpki n pie. If we could sneak in at the right moment we might snitc h a bit o f dressing or a finger of jelly, but we were soon discovered an d scoote d out. When one of the men wandered in, he was just as rudely di smissed . Sometimes we would give up and crawl on an uncle's lap, listeni ng to ma n-talk while the women laughed and chattered in the kitchen.

    "It seemed like we got everyone there, around the table, all the aunt s a nd uncles and cousins."

    Every corner of the house seemed to be full of children at these time s . Those of us who were older tried to find a moment of privacy for girl -s ecrets, while the little ones followed us and cried when we shoved the m a way. We would often stand on the stair landing, playing the old pum p orga n that rested there. We managed to make delicious noise until some one yel led at us in exasperation to stop.

    "She'd get new oilcloth to put on the table and it was a special occasi o n."

    Finally the table would be Ready. The children were allowed to eat firs t , self-preservation for the adults. We gathered at the table and sampl e d each of the dishes so carefully prepared for us, while trying to kee p t rack of all the goings on around us. Aunts and conversations moved in to t he living room leaving just Grandma to fuss over us. Somehow eatin g the m eal was not as much fun as snitching bits before it was done. Bu t we di d our best to eat to popping stage, then we were bustled out of t he kitch en to allow the grown-ups to have their meal. We seldom left the m in peac e; their laughter was like a magnet, and there was always roo m for one mo re piece of turkey from Mama's plate. True joy was the yea r that we girl s were considered old enough to join the grown-ups. We fin ally became pri vy to all the gossip that a scattered family brings to su ch a gathering.

    "It was a special occasion whenever she got anything new. She never h a d much, but she'd save."

    On early visits I watched Grandma lifting first one and then the othe r h eavy flat iron from the stove where it had been heating to iron her w hit e blouse. It seemed quaint and clever to press clothing without usin g ele ctricity. Like watching the coal flame and burn as she fed the stov e on c old mornings, I felt a kind of magic about the heavy flat irons . I doub t that Grandma appreciated the magic. I remember the celebratio n when th e coal stove was replaced with gleaming white electric range. T he famil y oooh'ed and aah'd, but I was wistful. There was an intimacy i n the shiv ering anticipation as I watched Grandma start the morning fire .


    One of my all-time favorite people was my Grandma Benson. She was born E l izabeth Greaves Eames on June 6, 1884 in Logan, Utah, to David Cullen E am es and Elizabeth Cluley Greaves. Grandma was a tiny person growing t o a h eight of 4’11” and weighing only 99 pounds for most of her life. Sh e wa s very pretty. We have a photo of her on the day she reigned as Quee n o f the Harvest Ball. She was wearing a homemade silver crown and carry in g a homemade staff. By today’s standards, the staff and crown look qui t e funny, but she was beautiful.

    Grandma moved with her family to Preston, Idaho when she was a small chi l d. While she was in elementary school, she met her future husband, Fra n k Taft Benson. From her diary, it is clear that she was smitten by hi m fr om the time they met in elementary school. In many ways, they were o pposi tes. While both of them were strikingly good-looking, Grandpa Benso n wa s very tall (over 6 feet), muscular, with a dark complexion, and ver y out going. In contrast, Grandma Benson was tiny, with a light complexio n, qui et, and very refined. My mother said that they were deeply in lov e with e ach other and had a great love affair all the years of their mar riage.

    My mother was particularly proud of her father. He served in the bishopr i c of their large ward most of the years of their marriage. Mother sai d h e was very good-looking and everyone loved him. It was Grandpa Benso n wh o used to sing “Have I Done Any Good in the World Today” every eveni ng wi th his family in his home.

    Grandpa Benson was a farmer and cattle trader so the family lived on a f a rm in the country nearly all of Grandpa and Grandma’s married life. Th e y had a large family. My mother, Carmen, and her twin brother, Harold , we re Grandma’s second pregnancy. Grandma Benson, being such a tiny per son , had a difficult time carrying the twins. She became so large durin g he r pregnancy that she couldn’t sit down. The only two possible positi ons f or her were standing and lying down. She went into labor with the t wins d uring a blizzard on November 4, 1911. Grandpa brought a neighborin g woma n to the house to watch Grandma while he traveled through the heav y sno w to get a doctor. The storm was so bad that Grandpa didn’t retur n for ho urs. In the meantime, Grandma delivered her twin babies, Carme n and Harol d, with the help of the neighbor. The babies weighed 8 poun d s and 9 poun ds, respectively. My tiny 99 pound grandmother had carrie d 17 pounds of b abies and delivered them at home without the help of a d octor. When the d octor finally arrived, he and my grandfather found Gran dma Benson and th e twins well and safe.

    Mother spoke often of the happy, almost idyllic life they led on the fa r m for the next several years. The children had a pony named Topsy tha t th ey rode to school, often with as many as three or four children on t he ba ck of the small horse. Topsy used to love to run and Mother said i t was n ot uncommon for all three or four children to slide from the hors es bac k as he thundered around the corner and down the lane to their hom e.

    There was a recession in the farming industry in the early 1920s. By t h e fall of 1922, things had become so difficult that Grandpa Benson cou l d not keep up with the debt on his farm, and the property was foreclose d . Grandpa and Grandma Benson moved their family of four girls and two b oy s to Logan, Utah where the family of eight lived with Grandpa Benson’ s br other, Surge. Grandpa Benson, who had been a farmer all of his life , work ed for Uncle Surge in his butcher shop in order to support his fam ily.

    In December, 1922, just two months after arriving in Logan, Grandma Bens o n’s youngest Child, Frank, became ill and died of the flu. She was so h ea rtsick at the loss of her Child that there were no Christmas decoratio n s in the house that Christmas. Two months later, in February, 1923, Gra nd pa Benson suffered a cerebral hemorrhage while dressing for work one m orn ing. He died later that day. My mother was 11 years old at the time . Sh e remembers Grandma sitting next to the coffin holding my grandfathe r’s b ody late at night after the children were in bed, caressing his bod y an d weeping. She had not told Grandpa Benson, but she was two months p regna nt with my Aunt Nellie Lou. In the space of four months, Grandma Be nson h ad lost her home, her two-year-old baby boy, and her husband.

    After burying Grandpa Benson, Grandma moved to a small home in Preston w h ere she found work as a clerk in a store. Seven months later, Grandma g av e birth to little Nellie Lou. Mother remembers Grandma Benson callin g ou t her husband’s name as she struggled through the delivery of thei r bab y girl.

    Upon returning to work, her employer allowed Grandma Benson to bring t h e baby with her in a buggy to the store so she could watch the baby whi l e she worked. My Aunt Nellie Lou told me that she always believed my mo th er was the most beautiful woman in the world because she would stand i n h er baby carriage and watch through the window for my mother’s face. S eein g mom come to pick her up, was the grand highlight of Aunt Nellie Lo u’s d ay as a toddler.

    Grandma Benson worked incredibly hard to support her family of six child r en. She was very independent and determined to care for her family with ou t taking charity from anyone. Mother told me the story of one Christma s w hen there was not enough money for presents for the children. The Bis ho p in the ward had a large basket of fruit and food delivered to Grandm a’ s home, and left on the front porch. When the children discovered th e bas ket, they were thrilled. Grandma, however, would not allow the chil dren t o bring the basket into the house. Instead, she called the Bisho p and ask ed that he come and pick it up and deliver it to someone who re ally neede d it. While her strength and determination were exemplary an d remarkable , that determination probably went beyond the mark on this p articular occ asion.

    I was born when Grandma was already 62 years old. She continued to wor k w ell into her 70s, never accepting charity from anyone as she raised h er s ix children.

    The last great tragedy in Grandma Benson’s life came in the summer of 19 4 8. Her son, Harold, the only remaining male member in her family, die d i n an airplane crash while he was piloting a plane on a search and res cu e mission. Mother said that Grandma Benson was never the same after th at . My little brother was born a month after Uncle Harold’s death. Mom n ame d my brother Harold Benson after her twin.

    Grandma Benson told her daughters that the greatest pain a mother can su f fer is the loss of a Child. She told them that she prayed daily that no n e of her children would ever have a Child precede them in death. My mot he r and all of her sisters have now passed from this life. Among them, t he y had 28 children. None of those children died before their mother.

    Grandma Benson kept a diary. In it she recorded both the major events a n d the day-to-day activities of her life. It was inspiring to read the d ia ry and note the number of entries in which she characterized the littl e d aily events in her life as being “grand”, a word she used repeatedly . I t was clear from her diary that she had great faith in the Lord, an d sh e loved the church. After the death of her son, Harold, she fell int o a g reat sadness. She never told us about the event that we found recor ded i n her diary. We only learned about it after her death. But, in th e diar y she records going to bed one evening feeling overwhelming sadnes s at th e loss of her husband and her two sons. The pain was almost mor e than sh e could bear. And then she recorded that a light came into th e room. Th e Savior appeared to her, comforted her, and assured her tha t things woul d be well for her and her family.

    My recollections of Grandma Benson are of a tiny, kind, perfectly gracio u s and proper person. In all the years I knew her, I can never remembe r he r saying an unkind word about or to anyone or using even a remotel y inapp ropriate word. She was as good and as pure and as kind as any per son I ha ve ever known. And, for a 4’11”, 99 pound person she was the str ongest wo man I have ever met.

    I REMEMBER LILLIE

    by Ilah Eames Carpenter

    I am the youngest of four brothers and three sisters. Memories of my bro t hers and sisters are very precious. David the eldest, Sadie, was 20 yea r s older than me and Lillie, was 18 years older. Lillie’s birthday was v er y close to mine. She was 18 on June 6 and I was born two days later o n Ju ne 8th. She told me many times that she had to stay home from churc h tha t day because mother had a little sister and I don’t think it mad e her to o happy. My next sister May, was 16 years older than me and the n three br others Ariel, Nathaniel and Leland were born and seven years l ater I cam e along. My memories of family are as the little sister and o f my brothe rs and sisters and how they played with me and made over me a nd they wer e very precious memories. Because this is to be about Lillie , I will jus t talk about the girls this morning. My three sisters were v ery close . I can remember my three sisters when they got together year s later sitt ing on the couch and reminiscing about life on the farm. The y had so muc h fun that I wondered why I came along after, my sisters wer e born, growi ng up with those three boys I became such a tomboy.

    Our home was two and a half miles north of Preston. We nearly came to li v e in Rexburg. I had an Aunt Kate Greaves and she and her husband decid e d to make her home in Preston. When mother and daddy got to Preston, th e y liked it and built their home right across the street the street fro m A unt Kate’s home This was tow and a half miles outside of Preston. Thi s i s where we all grew up and thank goodness the home is still in the fa mily , operated by one of Ariel’s sons.

    I have no memories of Sadie being at home at all. She married Arthur Tib b ets but they had a home in town and I have wonderful memories of spendi n g time, not only at their home in Preston but at their home in Driggs w he re they moved later on and at their home in Pocatello, Idaho. May marr ie d Ray Gledhill. He was a doctor and they moved to Richfield, Utah. I h av e wonderful memories of spending time in Richfield with my sister May.

    Well, the first memories I have of Lillie, I suppose I was about three y e ars old. You know out on the farm, the roads were not too good and in t h e winter it was muddy and cold and we had to ride in the buggy or in t h e sleigh. Dad was always anxious for us to have a good education and th e y felt sorry that they had to live so far out of town. So Lillie was wo rk ing at the Marrom store in Preston. The Marrom store was one of the re all y fine stores in Preston. May was going to school so instead of trave lin g back and forth, she and Lillie rented a little apartment in town. N ow t his was about two blocks north of town, it used to be Henderson’s ho me. U pstairs the girls rented a couple of rooms and there was a balcony . My fi rst memories of Lillie and May would be when daddy and mother wou ld com e in the buggy or in the sleigh and we would come down to bring th e gir l s goodies from the farm. They were usually waiting out on the bal cony a nd I thought that balcony was about the most wonderful thing you c ould im agine. I remember scrambling up the stairs and we were so glad t o see eac h other and then Lillie would take me down to Marrom’ s store . I though t that was the most wonderful place, I was fascinated watchin g her measur e off material for the customers at the store.

    Each fourth of July, we used to have a big celebration in Preston. The r e was red white and blue bunting on all the buggies and stores. They h a d a big program in the Opera House and each store would have a float a n d they would elect a goddess of liberty. One year my sister Lillie wa s el ected to be the Goddess of Liberty representing Marrom’s store. Thi s wa s about the most important thing that happened in my life as a littl e gir l. I remember there was a hayrack and it was all decorated with bun ting a nd pulled by horses and Lillie and her two attendants sitting on t his ha y rack and she was all dressed up with a crown on her head and a s taff i n her hand and a beautiful dress and they paraded down main stree t and th e n they went to the opera house and had the program. I was th e proudes t little sister that you could ever imagine and I dreamed of so meday bein g a goddess of liberty, but that never happened to me.

    The next memory I have of Lillie was when she got married. Mother ha d a r eception out on the farm for friends and for the Benson family. I l oved F rank, he made a lot out of his little sister. The Bensons were jus t extr a special. Mother Benson was such a pretty woman and the Benson gi rls wer e just out of this world, Jenny and Kinney especially. I remembe r the tab le in the dining room and of course it was loaded with goodie s and in th e parlor where all these little tables with all these beautif ul gifts o n and the gifts that appealed to me most were the beautiful di shes. Old f ashioned dishes were really beautiful and Lillie had many o f them. I hop e her daughters have kept them because they were beautiful . I remember wa ndering around and getting acquainted with the Bensons an d seeing al l th e beautiful things that were brought to Lillie and Fran k that night.

    As I remember, Frank and Lillie lived in Whitney after they were marrie d . I can’t remember exactly where but I went to visit them quite often a n d we always went to grandfather and grandmother’s farm. I loved that o l d home. It was just intriguing and the flowers were beautiful. I cam e t o love grandmother Benson, she was a darling. Then I think they move d som ewhere in Whitney, I can’t just remember where, but they were livin g ther e when Gladys was born at our home and of course if there was a ba by bor n on our street, mother and Aunt Kate always came. That night I ha d to sl eep upstairs with Leland while Gladys was coming to town and he w ould mak e me run down the stairs every-once-in-a-while and look throug h the trans om to see if the baby had arrived. I wasn’t too excited abou t this baby , she was really making my sister sick and I wasn’t very happ y about that .

    I remember when they lived up the street about two blocks on the old fa r m and that’s where the twins were born. That was about the biggest eve n t that ever happened. I never knew of anyone in our family having twin s b efore. When Lillie had twins, Carmen and Harold, that was just someth in g else again. As time went on and I became a little older, I started t o b e a babysitter. Lillie and Frank moved down to what they called the S an d Crest farm. That was just a great little farm. I have wonderful memo rie s of being there. The wonderful things the raised especially Frank’ s wate rmelons. They were the biggest and the best anywhere. They were gr own i n a sandy area that had plenty of sunshine. The railroad tracks ra n not f ar from them and I remember the silo’s Frank built to store the c attle in . I used to go down and help with the children so I would have c hildren t o grow up with. Mother always seemed to be sorry that I did no t have chil dren to grow up with. Lillie had me help her which gave m e a feeling of b eing their Child. I got to go to the Sand Crest farm rea l often and I lov ed it. I remember Gladys telling that I used to get fri ghtened sometime s because the farm was close to the railroad tracks an d I was afraid of t ramps. I would wake her up and tell her stories to ke ep he r awake so I w ouldn’t be frightened. Every Sunday at our home on t he farm used to be fa mily day. After church everyone would bring somethi ng out to the farm, Fr ank always brought his great big watermelons. It w as just such fun havin g everyone come home on Sunday. I always looked fo rward to Sunday.

    I remember Lillie being on the board of the Mutual and I was so prou d o f her, that sounded just something important to be on that board wit h tho se lovely women. Many, many times I had the privilege of going to c hurc h with her. She had to take Gladys and I came along to babysit. I ca n se e these women sitting around the table in their white blouses with t he hi gh collars and the long sleeves and lace and their pretty skirts . I thoug ht they were just about the prettiest woman I had ever seen. Li llie alway s took her responsibilities very seriously. Whatever she did , she alway s did it with her whole heart.

    She was on the board for many, many years. When June conference came ar o und, I was a lucky gal because I came with her so that I could babysit . M y memories of coming to June conference with Lillie were just out o f thi s world. Sometimes we stayed at a hotel, the little hotel just sout h of t he Tribune Building. Of course we always brought food from home. W e cam e on the train at Preston when the train stopped at Brigham, ther e were a lways people out selling food there. Strawberries at strawberr y time an d peaches. Once or twice we stayed at one of Frank’s sisters . I think he r name was Elise Alder if I remember right. I remember playi ng out on th e front lawn and the perfume of those June roses I will neve r forget.

    Aunt Elise had a cafeteria downtown and that was a fun place. We didn’ t g et to go there for every meal but once Lillie took me to Aunt Elise’ s caf eteria. I had this big bowl of grape-nuts with sugar and cream on i t. I s tarted eating them and the more I ate, the fuller I got. Our famil y was a lways taught to clean up their plates and Lillie kept saying, wel l we can ’t go, we can’t go until you finish your grape-nuts and I can re m embe r I ate and ate grape-nuts until I could hardly stand it. I don’ t thin k I had any for many, many years after that.

    We used to sometimes go down to Richfield. May was living there then . W e would get on the train and go down to Richfield and have a visit wi th M ay. Lillie and Frank spent most of their vacations at Bear Lake. The y wou ld get in their big white top buggy and pitch a tent and we would s tay th ere for several days and I remember times they took me with them a nd tha t was real fun. One night I remember a terrible thunder storm, Fra nk an d Lillie got us all in one tent with their arms around us. When th e thund er storm was all over we all went to sleep.

    In 1918 when the war was on and my brother Nathaniel was called into t h e army, the whole family decided they would go up to Yellowstone and ha v e a reunion before Nathaniel had to leave for the service. Lillie was p re gnant, I think with Zenda. There were five of sisters-in-law who wer e pre gnant and were all going on this trip, Ariel and Edna and family, E dna wa s expecting Vita and May and Ray came from Richfield and then an a unt an d uncle, Uncle Will Greaves, went with us and then of course Natha niel, M other and Dad and Me. When we got to Driggs, we stayed there unti l Sadi e and Arthur met us and then we went on to Yellowstone. Anyway, th e thin g I remember about this trip was that Lillie was such fun, even th ough sh e was pregnant, she was the life of the party. We‘d camp, we pu t the car s around in a circle and put the beds inside and built a big bo nfire to k eep the bears away which didn’t always work, two or three time s the bear s came in hunting food. Lillie was the one in my memory that s eemed to ha ve the most fun and did the most fun things. When we came bac k to Drigg s going over that big mountain between Driggs and Yellowstone , the cars s talled and we had to have each one pulled up over the mounta in. It was re ally just a great trip.

    Frank had this little Ford that didn’t have any sides on it and they us e d to put diapers to dry on the side of the car as they drove along. Fra n k kept laughing about his tires that had baloney in them. Our tires ha d t o be pumped up but Frank had one up on us, he had these tires with ba lone y in them so they never had to be blown up. They were just hard rubb er o f course. That was really a delightful trip for everybody and I thi n k th ere were several snap shots of that trip.

    Time went on and Lillie had her troubles -- real, real tragedies, losi n g her husband and her sons, but you know Lillie was always straight an d h eld her head high and she always had her sense of humor. I was close r t o Lillie for many, many years because Sadie and May lived so far away . I f I had problems, I went and talked them over with Lillie. We spen t many , many hour’s way into the night talking and she always helped m e with th e little problems I needed help with. She used to love to dres s up. She l oved pretty clothes. We would go shopping for hats together , we loved shi pping for hats. She always had such a good outlook regardl ess of the prob lems that she had. She had great faith, she had great pri de in her family . She was so proud of her girls and loved them dearly . I don’t think I ha ve known anyone who had such a capacity or love as L illie did. Lillie lov ed everyone and let us know it. She didn’t keep i t a secret, she told u s that she loved us.

    Lillie had a green thumb too. I can never remember being in her home wh e n there were not plants everywhere. Lillie had financial problems so s h e sewed for her children. When used clothes were given to her, she dye d a nd remodeled them. She did everything she could think of to see he r chil dren were given an education and brought up in the church the wa y that sh e knew how to do it. So these are my memories of Lillie a sweet , proud, s traight, lovely person that would be with friends, family an d neighbors a ny time that they needed help.

    Elizabeth married Frank Taft Benson on 27 Jan 1909 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States. Frank (son of George Taft Benson and Louisa Alexandrine Ballif) was born on 23 Apr 1883 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 19 Feb 1923 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 21 Feb 1923 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]

    Notes:

    Marriage: Western States Marriage Index, 1809-2011, Utah, Select Marriag e s, 1887-1966

    Children:
    1. Gladys Benson was born on 12 Nov 1909 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 27 Jan 1995 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; was buried on 31 Jan 1995 in Mountain View Memorial Estates Cemetery, Cottonwood Heights, Salt Lake, Utah, United States.
    2. Carmen Benson was born on 4 Nov 1911 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was christened on 12 Nov 1911 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 17 Aug 2001 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was buried on 20 Aug 2001 in Preston Cemetery, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    3. Harold Eames Benson was born on 4 Nov 1911 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 20 Jul 1948 in Park City, Summit, Utah, United States; was buried on 23 Jul 1948 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States.
    4. Flora Benson was born on 30 Jan 1916 in Whitney, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 14 Oct 1984 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; was buried on 17 Oct 1984 in Preston Cemetery, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    5. Zenda Benson was born on 25 Oct 1918 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 27 Feb 2003 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; was buried on 2 Mar 2003 in Wasatch Lawn Memorial Park, Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States.
    6. Frank Eames Benson was born on 26 Sep 1920 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 2 Jan 1923 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 4 Jan 1923 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.
    7. Nellie Louisa Benson was born on 11 Sep 1923 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 11 Oct 1975 in Pocatello, Bannock, Idaho, United States; was buried on 14 Oct 1975 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.

Generation: 2

  1. 2.  David Cullen EamesDavid Cullen Eames was born on 1 Sep 1851 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States (son of David Rowland Eames and Esther Cullen); died on 9 Feb 1929 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was buried on 13 Feb 1929 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: KWCD-QW3
    • Initiatory (LDS): 4 Jun 1884, LOGAN
    • Census: 1910, Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States

    David married Elizabeth Cluley Greaves on 29 Dec 1877 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States. Elizabeth (daughter of Joseph Greaves and Sarah Priscilla Cluley) was born on 21 Oct 1856 in Provo, Utah, Utah, United States; died on 5 May 1942 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was buried on 8 May 1942 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  2. 3.  Elizabeth Cluley GreavesElizabeth Cluley Greaves was born on 21 Oct 1856 in Provo, Utah, Utah, United States (daughter of Joseph Greaves and Sarah Priscilla Cluley); died on 5 May 1942 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was buried on 8 May 1942 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: KWCD-QWQ
    • Initiatory (LDS): 4 Jun 1884, LOGAN
    • Census: 1910, Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States

    Notes:

    Elizabeth Cluley Greaves was born in a one-room adobe house at Provo, Ut a h on October 21, 1856.
    Her family spent several years clearing land near the Provo River for fa r ming.

    Then one year the river flooded, completely ruining the farm. This broug h t the family of six to Logan where in late 1862, they lived out of a co ve red wagon while Joseph built a suitable dugout for a winter dwelling.
    Four years following their arrival in Logan, the family lost their mom a n d their newborn sixth sister, Mary Ann .

    This was truly a time of sorrow and trial for 8-year-old Elizabeth. Sh e w ould take her 2-year-old baby sister from one neighbor to another try in g to keep her from crying for her mother.

    When one parent is gone, little children feel the need to draw very clos e ly around the parent who is with them. Joseph, now a widower, was lef t wi th 3 young boys ages 10, 6, and 4, and 2 daughters ages 8 and 2. The y wou ld have required nearly all of his time and attention.

    The neighbors offered help, and Joseph was in no position to reject it . W ith Elizabeth taking her baby sister to various neighbors for care, J osep h found his burden bearable. He could occupy the three boys workin g wit h him on the farm.

    Joseph's bishop suggested a permanent home for Elizabeth. She would be v e ry helpful in tending younger children and assisting with housework. H e r physical needs would all be satisfied. Joseph may have thought of hi s o wn half-starved childhood as an orphan in England. Here was a chanc e fo r a daughter to be well cared for while she was growing up and learn ing t he art of homemaking. He accepted the offer .

    Elizabeth was taken to live in a new home in a different ward four mil e s away. With a one-hour hike separating her from her family, this wa s i n some ways like living in a different community. Unfortunately, Eliz abet h's strong emotional need to be near her father and family was overl ooked . To be pulled away from her family at this time greatly accentuate d he r grief.

    While living in the household of Ada Hemingway Davidson, Elizabeth was a l ways kept very busy. Perhaps it was hoped that this would keep her fro m l onging for her family. She did get some schooling, but as recorded b y he r daughter Lillie, she would have to rush home at noon to scrub th e kitch en floor and comb Mrs. Davidson's heavy long hair, leaving no tim e to ea t her dinner.

    There were many nights when Elizabeth would cry herself to sleep. She lo n ged for her family; she mourned for her mother. She felt more like a se rv ant than a daughter in this new home .

    In later years, when people came to live in her home, they were always t r eated like part of the family.

    Three or four years later, when Elizabeth was twelve years old, her fath e r remarried. However, Elizabeth was not invited to come back home to li ve ; we do not know why. Her father's own years of apprenticeship in Engl an d suggest a possible answer. It may not have seemed fair to him that h i s daughter was given board, room, and training for several years and th e n taken back home just as she was becoming useful enough to pay back h e r benefactors. Thus he may have looked upon her service as an indentur e d contract which only time could fill. That Joseph loved his daughter w a s never a point of question. Their separation may have been nearly as h ar d on him as it was on her.

    These were pioneering days; these were times for survival. Elizabeth a n d her father both sacrificed, and they both survived!

    Elizabeth lived with and served Mrs. Davidson for ten years. Elizabeth w a s a hard worker and was always very useful. She became very skilled i n al l the pioneer homemaking arts. She also worked in the garden and gre w t o love flowers.

    Elizabeth kept as close to her family as possible over the years. Five a d ditional children were born to her father and his new wife. These fiv e an d the two daughters from his new wife's previous marriage were love d as m uch by Elizabeth as her original three brothers and sister. Elizab eth's d aughter Lillie was fully grown before she realized that the two g irls fro m the previous marriage were not her mother's own sisters.

    Elizabeth's older brother John looked after her welfare. When they wer e o ld enough to go to the dances, John would always first see if Elizabe th h ad someone to go with. He would take her to the dance himself if sh e di d not. Lillie wrote that when John received his first wages for hiri ng ou t on a job, he gave his sister Elizabeth 35 cents. This was the fir st mon ey Elizabeth ever had. She made herself a very pretty dress with t he mate rial purchased from this money.

    Elizabeth and her husband, David Eames, were lovers, right from the begi n ning to the end of their lives. Their daughter records she, “never reca l l my parents saying an unkind word to each other”. They had 10 childre n ( Elizabeth was 45 years old when her last child was born .

    Elizabeth and her husband were “first” in many things: first to in the i r area to have a telephone, first to have electric lights and first t o ha ve indoor plumbing so they could have a bathroom, a tub, a washbasi n an d a toilet. Their children’s friends used to come down to take a bat h i n their big white tub. Previous to that, Saturday night all the famil y to ok their baths in the round tub in the kitchen.

    The family had a big dining room table and Elizabeth always had a table c loth on, ready to feed anyone that ever came. They turned the chairs, t h e back against the table and the seat facing out, and there is where w e k nelt to have our prayer.

    Elizabeth Cluley Greaves Eames was a remarkably resourceful woman, by an y one's standard. She was someone often called on when someone was sick , sh e also helped with the babies for miles around. She made her own soa p, sh e'd catch their geese, turn them upside down on her lap and pick th e dow n off from underneath their tummies, put it in a big washtub, the n fill i t into pillows. Elizabeth’s family raised a lot of sheep. She ca rded som e of this wool and made it into nice clean bats and made quilt s she als o knitted long black stockings made from their wool.

    Her youngest daughter, Ilah, recalls, “My mother also taught me to lov e a nd visit my family”.

    During the last few years of Elizabeth's life, Lillie made the followi n g observation about her: "Mother has worked so very constantly and so h ar d all her life until now at the age of 81 years, she is nervous if sh e si ts without something in her hands to do."

    Sources:
    David Cullen Eames (B.1851) and Elizabeth Cluley Greaves Family By Ral p h G. McKnight
    Our Eames Heritage Transcription of an audiotape made by Ilah Eames Carp e nter to Ralph McKnight Summer of 1983

    Children:
    1. Edward Eames was born on 21 Aug 1878 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 21 Aug 1878 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States.
    2. David Greaves Eames was born on 29 Sep 1879 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 27 Jan 1961 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was buried on 31 Jan 1961 in Preston Cemetery, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    3. Sarah Greaves Eames was born on 1 Nov 1881 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was christened on 3 Aug 1890 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 27 Nov 1970 in Pocatello, Bannock, Idaho, United States; was buried on 1 Dec 1970 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    4. 1. Elizabeth Greaves "Lillie" Eames was born on 6 Jun 1884 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 28 Dec 1966 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; was buried on 31 Dec 1966 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.
    5. Rebecca May Eames was born on 28 Dec 1886 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 25 Jul 1955 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; was buried on 29 Jul 1955 in Richfield, Sevier, Utah, United States.
    6. Aerial Guy Eames was born on 18 Jul 1889 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 27 Jan 1971 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 31 Jan 1971 in Preston Cemetery, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    7. Nathaniel Howard Eames was born on 3 Aug 1892 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 27 Jan 1921; was buried on 30 Jan 1921 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    8. Joseph Leland Eames was born on 23 Jun 1895 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 12 Feb 1970 in Ogden, Weber, Utah, United States; was buried on 16 Feb 1970 in Ogden, Weber, Utah, United States.
    9. Rowland Eames was born on 14 May 1898 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 16 May 1898 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was buried in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    10. Ilah Eames was born on 8 Jun 1902 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; died on 17 May 1994 in Orem, Utah, Utah, United States; was buried in Preston Cemetery, Franklin, Idaho, United States.


Generation: 3

  1. 4.  David Rowland EamesDavid Rowland Eames was born on 17 Nov 1824 in Farr Forotham, Merionethshire, Wales (son of Nathaniel Eames and Catherine Griffith); died on 25 Nov 1885 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 28 Nov 1885 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: KWVP-Q5L
    • Initiatory (LDS): 11 Aug 1851, EHOUS

    Notes:

    Pioneers and Prominent Men of Utah. Esshom, Frank. 1913 Page: 853
    Mormons and Their Neighbors. Wiggins, Marvin

    Utah Federal Census; Year: 1851

    Family Group Sheet-Father

    In 1850, David had a household of 3, and $175 of real wealth. David ca m e to Utah, September 17, 1850 with the Jonathan Foote Company. David to o k part in the Echo Canyon war.

    Occupation: Farmer
    Pioneer
    Warren Foote Company (1850) Age at departure: 25
    About 540 individuals and 104 wagons were in the company when it began i t s journey from the outfitting post at Kanesville, Iowa (present day Cou nc il Bluffs).

    David married Esther Cullen on 23 May 1850 in Carbonca, Pottawattamie, Iowa, United States. Esther (daughter of James Cullen and Esther Riden) was born on 15 Oct 1830 in Barrow, Suffolk, England; was christened on 28 Nov 1830 in Berrow, Somersetshire, England; died on 3 Apr 1923 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 6 Apr 1923 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  2. 5.  Esther CullenEsther Cullen was born on 15 Oct 1830 in Barrow, Suffolk, England; was christened on 28 Nov 1830 in Berrow, Somersetshire, England (daughter of James Cullen and Esther Riden); died on 3 Apr 1923 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 6 Apr 1923 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: KWVP-Q5K
    • Initiatory (LDS): 11 Aug 1851, EHOUS

    Children:
    1. 2. David Cullen Eames was born on 1 Sep 1851 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; died on 9 Feb 1929 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was buried on 13 Feb 1929 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    2. Joseph Cullen Eames was born on 28 May 1853 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; died on 30 Sep 1880 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 2 Oct 1880 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States.
    3. Catherine Mary Eames was born on 20 Sep 1855 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; died on 31 May 1931 in Ogden, Weber, Utah, United States; was buried on 3 Jun 1931 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States.
    4. Nathaniel Cullen Eames was born on 29 Sep 1857 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; died on 13 Mar 1909 in Helena, Lewis and Clark, Montana, United States; was buried in Helena, Lewis and Clark, Montana, United States.
    5. Arthur George Eames was born on 28 Aug 1861 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 1 May 1941 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States.
    6. Roland Cullen Eames was born on 8 Aug 1863 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 26 Mar 1956 in Helena, Lewis and Clark, Montana, United States; was buried on 29 Mar 1956 in Helena, Lewis and Clark, Montana, United States.
    7. Brigham Cullen Eames was born on 9 Jun 1865 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 10 Jan 1935 in Spokane, Spokane, Washington, United States; was buried in Spokane, Spokane, Washington, United States.
    8. James Cullen Eames was born on 3 Sep 1867 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 11 Jul 1944.
    9. Ezra Cullen Eames was born on 11 May 1870 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 10 Nov 1926 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 13 Nov 1926 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States.
    10. Henry Griffith Eames was born on 20 Jun 1872 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 25 Sep 1875.

  3. 6.  Joseph Greaves was born on 22 Feb 1832 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England (son of Joseph Greaves and Mary Ann Holliwell); died on 19 Jun 1904 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 22 Jun 1904 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: KWJ4-Z4M
    • Initiatory (LDS): 6 Nov 1868, EHOUS

    Notes:

    Pioneer

    Jacob Gates Company (1853) Age at departure: 21. 262 individuals and 3 3 w agons were in the company when it began its journey from the outfitti ng p ost at Keokuk, Iowa. The first members of the company arrived in Sal t Lak e by September 26, but others came in as late as September 30th.

    Occupation: Farmer

    Joseph married Sarah Priscilla Cluley on 20 Feb 1853 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England. Sarah (daughter of Henry Cluley and Catherine Threlfall) was born on 13 Feb 1831 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was christened on 1 Apr 1831 in Church of Our Lady and Saint Nicholas, Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died on 13 Apr 1865 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  4. 7.  Sarah Priscilla Cluley was born on 13 Feb 1831 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was christened on 1 Apr 1831 in Church of Our Lady and Saint Nicholas, Liverpool, Lancashire, England (daughter of Henry Cluley and Catherine Threlfall); died on 13 Apr 1865 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: KWJ4-ZW1
    • Initiatory (LDS): 28 Jan 1885, LOGAN

    Notes:

    Sarah Priscilla Cluley
    1831- 1865

    Early Life
    Born: 13 Feb 1831 Liverpool, England
    Christened: April 1, 1831
    Baptized: 3 July 1831 St. Nicholas, Church of England in Liverpool
    Parents: Henry Cluley and Catherine Threlfall .

    Sarah’s father, Henry, is listed as bootmaker on Sarah’s marriage licens e . Bootmaking/shoemaking appears to be a family business. Sarah’s mothe r , Catherine, worked as a shoebinder (1841 census).
    ** Hand binder or boot binder—one who sewed together the upper leather s o n a last, usually women, older children and old men.

    Sarah Priscilla was born the 3rd of 6 children in her family but she w a s the only child that grew into adulthood; her other 5 siblings all di e d when they were infants. Sarah Priscilla was the only child who live d p ast the age of one.

    Siblings:
    Ann—Jan 2, 1828-Nov 1828--
    Lived 10 months
    John—July 17, 1829-Mar 8 1830--
    Lived 8 months
    Sarah—Feb 13, 1831-Apr 12 1865
    Joseph—June 28, 1835-Feb. 1836--
    Lived 8 months
    Elizabeth—Feb 13, 1837-March 1837- Lived about 5 weeks
    Henry—May 6, 1838-Feb 24, 1839--
    Lived 9 months

    Sarah lived on Brick Street, Liverpool, England.
    She learned about heartache and death at an early age.
    Before she was 10, Sarah not only lost her father but had also experienc e d the joy of having 3 siblings born and the sorrow of those 3 childre n be ing called home in their infancy.

    Sarah (10) and her mother (35) then lived with Catherine’s father, Jose p h Threlfall, a carpenter, who was 75 years old. (1841 census)

    While growing up, Sarah most likely helped her mother in the shoe bindi n g business and probably looked after her grandfather the best she could .

    When Sarah was 17 years old, her mother, Catherine, remarried a man nam e d William Maxwell. (She had been a widow 8 years )

    Adulthood
    At age 20, Sarah was living in another household—(77 Grove Street) possi b ly caring for an 82 year old man. She is listed as a servant living wi t h a retired merchant, a commercial traveler who is a listed as a lodge r a nd a 36 year old woman listed as head of house and housekeeper. (185 1 cen sus)

    Sarah somehow learned about the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Sai n ts between the years of 1849 and 1852. One record says she was baptiz e d on 22 Dec. 1849 but other writings indicate the date was later, clos e r to 1851-2.

    When she was 22, Sarah married Joseph Greaves (Feb 20, 1853). The ne x t day they sailed on the “International” bound for New Orleans, LA.

    This must have been a time of conflicting emotions for Sarah. Knowing th e y would never see each other again in this life, she had to leave her m ot her and everything familiar to her, but there must have been excitemen t a t starting a new marriage and a new life in a new country with peopl e wh o shared her same beliefs and goals.

    Coming to America
    8 weeks of:
    The discomforts of cheapest fare
    Crowded quarters
    Menial tasks, bad smells
    Insufficient food—running out of flour
    Little room—their berth (or bed) was so small that if she turned, she a n d Joseph both would have to turn at the same time.
    Unfavorable winds
    Once during a storm on ship—the hatchway was closed down and people ha d t o keep in their bunks. Sarah made a caraway seed cake that they pu t in s ack and hung it within reach and that supplied food for them whil e the st orm lasted.

    *A more detailed description of the International’s voyage to Americ a i s included at the end of this history.

    Going West
    Joseph remembers:
    (In a letter to his cousin William Greaves Sept 2-4 1897)

    Jacob Gates Company—1853

    “from New Orleans we go by Steamer to Keokuk Iowna [Iowa], from this Pla c e we Travel with Ox Teams to Salt Lake City Distance 1300 miles.
    arrived there Sept. 30. I helped to drive the Loose Cattle of the Compa n y the whole of the Journey on foot. the first 300 miles it was very we t w eather. and most of us had to lay on the ground as only one or two co ul d lay in each wagon. my Provisions gave out on the Sweet water, as wa s th e case with others of the company. from this time we commenced to ki ll th e poorest of the Cattle to live on, and we had no salt to use wit h this m eat,
    Keokuk, Iowa was our outfitting point w[h]ere we received our oxen, cow s , and wagons. Here is where our camp life commenced. We were on the fro nt ier of civilization; we remained here some time waiting for our oxen . Her e we were put in companies, twelve persons to a wagon. There were , I thin k, four families in our wagon, my family and that of an old man’ s was sma ll. There was a captain over each ten wagons and a captain of t he compan y of fifty wagons when we started from here. And when the wago n I belonge d to was just pulling out a man comes to me and says, “You ha ve been sele cted to remain here in company with three others to bring al ong a herd o f cows when they come.” I had never been one day away from m y wife befor e since we were married. The company went some distance t o a place calle d Montrose, and by this time they found out that they wer e too heavily lo aded for a journey of 1,300 miles. Each family had a box , some had crock s and books. We had to lighten up; the locks and hinge s were taken off th e boxes, and the boxes were all piled together and bu rned. Crocks, extr a cooking utensils, books and anything that could be d ispensed with had t o be got rid of. The inhabitants of that place got lo ts of things for a f ew vegetables or a little milk. When the cows came , life was something ne w for a sailor. The cows were purchased of farmer s all over the country a nd were all strange to each other and of cours e would not travel together , and I can assure you we green horns had a h ard time of it. They would g o every way but the way we wanted them to go . When we reached our compan y my wife soon informed me of all the thing s she had to part with. We wer e allowed one box to a wagon to put in th e best things of the persons bel onging to the wagon, and me being away a t the time, selected mine for tha t purpose. Our route through Iowa to th e Missouri river to where Omaha no w is was a distance of 300 miles. It w as a wet season of the year. I ha d made myself an oilcloth coat to wea r on the ship as I thought befor e I started, but had no occasion to wea r it. But it came in good to put o n the wet ground in the tent to make o ur bed on. The grass was up to ou r waist and every morning when we woul d go to gather up the cattle we wou ld get wet to our skin. This 300 mile s was one of the greatest trials I h ave ever passed through, except losi ng my wife. I had never been used t o walking and it was a great deal o f labor to me. I have many a time la y down on the ground and cussed th e day that I was born. I am sorry to sa y it but it is so. But long befor e we got to Salt Lake I could have walke d many more miles than our team s were able to do each day. We were campe d some time where Omaha now is . It took quite a long time to ferry the wa gons and cattle over the rive r. This place was called Caneville [Kanesvil le], and the last place sett led by white people. When we crossed the Miss ouri we were in the India n territory and one thousand and thirty miles o f dry country before us . We made this part of our journey in a little ove r ten weeks. This par t of the journey was hot and we would walk through r ivers and creeks wit h our clothes all on and let them dry on us and not h ave any bad effect s from so doing. We had two yolk of oxen to each wago n and two cows. Som e men would break in the cows and use them. I drove th e loose animals th e whole distance, had one person at a time to help me . During the last 5 00 miles when the cattle were poor and sore-footed I w ould be left a lon g way behind the company and at times when it was ver y dark. I could no t have found the camp if it had not been for the sens e of smell of an ol d gentleman that was with me. He could smell the cam p fire a long way of f. Some time before we reached our journey’s end ou r provisions became v ery scarce. Then we commenced to kill our poorest ca ttle to [word fade d out] out the deficiency. If anyone ever learned the v alue of salt, w e did at this time. (I have always been careful of salt ev er since.) W e lived on poor beef alone and no salt too – it is somethin g you could n ot comprehend if you have not tried it. During our journey w e could se e many useful articles by the roadside that were left by thos e who wer e ahead of us to lighten their loads. Men would be stationed b y these ar ticles while the train would pass by them or some thoughtless p ersons wo uld put things in the wagons and soon put us in the condition o f those w ho had to leave them. I was so hungry the latter part of our jou rney tha t I had made up my mind that as soon as I got in the valley of Sa lt Lak e I would commence to beg, but as usual, the last day I was a lon g way b ehind the company. And as soon as I got out of the mountains I cou ld se e the city in the distance. I left two oxen that had hindered my pro gres s all day, and traveled a little faster. When I reached camp my wif e inf ormed me that the people commenced to beg at every house they passed . Wh en I learned that, it took all the courage out of me and one of our c omp any, seeing we had nothing, gave us enough to make us a supper. Thus e nd ed our journey, on the 30th of Sept. 1853. I kept no diary of those da y s so I cannot give you as interesting account as I would like to have d on e.” (J. Greaves)

    The company made a start but found they were too heavily loaded. Capta i n Gates called a meeting and told everyone to throw away all but 25 pou nd s a head. All of the books were burned and many dishes were discarded . S ome were traded to settlers for food.

    A grand-daughter remembers:
    “Grandmother (Sarah) had to discard many of her precious things as the y w ere coming to Utah so as to lighten the load for the oxen were givin g out . This made her feel very bad.”

    “Grandmother had real dark hair and grey eyes. (her daughter, Priscill a , resembled her (Sarah) and aunt Lizzie resembled grandfather (Joseph). ”

    Utah
    Arriving in Salt Lake destitute, Joseph had to accept any kind of availa b le work, a tough thing for someone who had never done anything except t ai loring. Priscilla fared some better by helping with the housework of a n a ged couple and this had food and warmth.

    Priscilla and Joseph’s first winter in SLC was full of hardships. Jose p h wrote, “We were in a strange country and I had never done a day’s wo r k at anything but my trade. It was hard for a weak, half starved indiv id ual like myself to learn to do common labor with shovel, pick or saw . Ev ery little job I would get would be different from the one I last h ad…I w ould keep warm in the sun on the south side of some building. W e got i n a log house that winter, but had very little wood to burn. A t nigh t I would go to meeting to keep warm. However, we lived through o ur firs t North American winter. I have never regretted my coming here a lthoug h it was wild looking place then.”

    Ten months after Joseph and Priscilla were married, their first child, J o hn Cluley, was born in a one-room dirt floor log cabin. They lived i n Sa lt Lake City for 3 years, sometimes living on roots of weeds to kee p fro m starving. The grasshopper plague made things even worse, destroy ing th eir crops, so they moved to Provo.

    In Provo, fish were easily caught—even with no bait and potatoes, corn a n d flour were obtained. There, Thomas, Joseph and Elizabeth were bor n i n a one-room adobe house. The Greaves family spent several years cle arin g land and farming near the Provo River. The farm was too near th e rive r and their crops were frequently washed away. Then one year th e river f looded, completely ruining the farm .

    Joseph had heard favorable reports about Cache Valley so he set out on f o ot to inspect to the area. He liked what he saw and so after 6 year s o f living in Provo, the family of 6 traveled by ox team in the winte r to L ogan. They lived in their wagon until they were able to make a on e-roo m dugout where the lot sloped down. They now had a roof, a door an d a wi ndow. The floors were covered with clean straw and they had a fire place a nd bake oven that they used outside. Now sheltered and comfortab le, th e family welcomed a baby girl, Priscilla, born in March 1863. Th e move t o Logan was permanent. Later they lived in a two-room house wit h a “lean to” on the back on the lot where they first camped.

    Three years later, on April 2, 1865 Sarah gave birth to a baby girl, Ma r y Ann. She lived only a few days and on the 13th of the same month, Sa ra h (age 34) followed her in death. Mary Ann’s grave was made larger an d c ontains both mother and daughter. Thirty-four years is not a long ti me t o live, but the wonderful characteristics, traits and values Sarah a nd Jo seph have passed on to their children stand as a witness to the ki nd o f people they were and what they instilled in their children.
    Sarah and Joseph’s 6 children:

    John Cluley Elizabeth Cluley Joseph Cluley

    Thomas Cluley Priscilla Cluley Mary Ann Cluley

    Trials, tests, set backs, hardships, caring for others, accomplishment s , joy, starting and restarting life over again…Sarah was familiar wit h al l these things and kept going. She was loved: by the family she cam e fro m, by her children and her husband. We are grateful for her life , sacrif ices, example and legacy she has left us. Joseph’s feelings wer e about S arah were expressed in his letter to William, 32 years after he r passing:
    “Our route through Iowa to where Omaha now is was a distance of 300 mile s . This 300 miles was one of the greatest trials I have ever passed thr ou gh except losing my wife”
    Thank you, Grandma Sarah. Until we meet again….
    **The plot was among the first in the Logan City cemetery and lies direc t ly east across the roadway from the Thatcher plot. Joseph, and his sec on d wife, Elizabeth Wood Greaves and an infant daughter Susan who died s oo n after birth are also buried there. A suitable monument marks the pl ot.
    Sources:
    “My Grandfather – Joseph Greaves”, History of Utah since Statehood, Vo l . 4, pg. 1920
    Conversations between Nellie Greaves Spidell and Elizabeth Greaves Eam e s on March 27, 1937
    Missionary Journal of Joseph Greaves – original now in LDS Church Archiv e s. Also brief sketch prefacing this journa l
    Two letters written by Joseph Greaves dated September 10, 1897 and Septe m ber 14, 1897.
    #1 Personal History: Childhood and Catherine Mary Eames by Vera Carter L e wis

    Children:
    1. John Cluley Greaves was born on 21 Dec 1854 in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake, Utah, United States; died on 8 Oct 1933 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was buried on 11 Oct 1933 in Preston Cemetery, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    2. 3. Elizabeth Cluley Greaves was born on 21 Oct 1856 in Provo, Utah, Utah, United States; died on 5 May 1942 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States; was buried on 8 May 1942 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    3. Joseph Cluley Greaves was born on 1 Dec 1858 in Provo, Utah, Utah, United States; died on 16 Nov 1884 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States.
    4. Thomas Cluley Greaves was born on 2 Nov 1860 in Provo, Utah, Utah, United States; died on 5 May 1920 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 16 May 1920 in Preston, Franklin, Idaho, United States.
    5. Priscilla Cluley Greaves was born on 17 Mar 1863 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 24 Feb 1917 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 1 Mar 1917 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States.
    6. Mary Ann Cluley Greaves was born on 2 Apr 1865 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; died on 8 Apr 1865 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States.


Generation: 4

  1. 8.  Nathaniel Eames was born in 1789 in Penrhyndeudreath, Gwynedd, Wales; was christened on 19 Jul 1789 in Beddgelert, Caernarvonshire, Wales (son of Roland Eames and Margaret Jonet Humphrey); died on 11 May 1849 in Mississippi River, United States; was buried on 11 May 1849 in Banks of the Mississippi River, Missouri, United States.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: LHZ2-7XX
    • Initiatory (LDS): 22 Jul 1921, LOGAN

    Notes:

    From Kay F. Nelson genealogy sheets.

    He died of cholera on a steamer going up the Miss and was buried there a l ong with his wife Sarah Jones and 4 of his littlest ones, leaving onl y 1 4 yr old Nathanial.

    Nathaniel married Catherine Griffith on 10 Nov 1820 in Llanfair, Merionethshire, Wales. Catherine (daughter of Pritchard Griffith and Gwen David) was christened on 3 Aug 1801 in Harlech, Merionethshire, Wales; died in 1841. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  2. 9.  Catherine Griffith was christened on 3 Aug 1801 in Harlech, Merionethshire, Wales (daughter of Pritchard Griffith and Gwen David); died in 1841.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: LHZR-Q8J
    • Initiatory (LDS): 12 Jul 1948, MANTI

    Children:
    1. Roland Eames was christened on 16 Feb 1822 in Llanfrothen, Gwynedd, Wales; died on 26 Mar 1846 in Llanfrothen, Gwynedd, Wales.
    2. 4. David Rowland Eames was born on 17 Nov 1824 in Farr Forotham, Merionethshire, Wales; died on 25 Nov 1885 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 28 Nov 1885 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.
    3. Gwen Eames was born about 1826 in Glan-y-Gors, Cerrigydrudion, Corwen, Wales; died in 1893 in Wales.
    4. Margaret Rowland Eames was born on 23 Apr 1829 in Glan-y-Gors, Cerrigydrudion, Corwen, Wales; was christened on 23 Apr 1829 in Llanfrothen, Gwynedd, Wales.
    5. Elizabeth Eames was born about 1831 in Llanfrothen, Gwynedd, Wales.
    6. Nathanial Eames was christened on 14 Jul 1835 in Llanfrothen, Gwynedd, Wales; died about 1855.

  3. 10.  James Cullen was born about 1804 in Barrow, Suffolk, England (son of John Collings and Rebecca Bowering).

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: LH8Y-GW5
    • Initiatory (LDS): 1 Nov 1996, LOGAN

    James married Esther Riden in 1820 in Barrow, Suffolk, England. Esther (daughter of George Ryden and Sarah Poole) was christened on 14 Feb 1790 in Lympsham, Somersetshire, England; died on 28 Nov 1830 in Berrow, Somersetshire, England; was buried on 28 Nov 1830 in Berrow, Somersetshire, England. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  4. 11.  Esther Riden was christened on 14 Feb 1790 in Lympsham, Somersetshire, England (daughter of George Ryden and Sarah Poole); died on 28 Nov 1830 in Berrow, Somersetshire, England; was buried on 28 Nov 1830 in Berrow, Somersetshire, England.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: LHXL-HLS
    • Initiatory (LDS): 29 Aug 1924, SLAKE

    Children:
    1. Arthur Cullen was christened on 22 Sep 1822 in Burnham-on-Sea, Somersetshire, England.
    2. Joseph Cullen was christened on 25 Jan 1825 in Burnham-on-Sea, Somersetshire, England.
    3. Caroline Cullen was christened on 18 Nov 1827 in Burnham-on-Sea, Somersetshire, England.
    4. 5. Esther Cullen was born on 15 Oct 1830 in Barrow, Suffolk, England; was christened on 28 Nov 1830 in Berrow, Somersetshire, England; died on 3 Apr 1923 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 6 Apr 1923 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.

  5. 12.  Joseph Greaves was born on 28 Feb 1810 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England (son of James Greaves and Jane Caddick); died on 17 May 1847 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was buried in Necropolis Cemetery, Liverpool, Lancashire, England.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: L5FK-H9Z
    • Initiatory (LDS): 5 Feb 1885, LOGAN

    Joseph married Mary Ann Holliwell on 28 Nov 1830 in Church of Our Lady and Saint Nicholas, Liverpool, Lancashire, England. Mary (daughter of George Holliwell and Sarah Trellford) was born on 12 Jun 1810 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died on 27 Sep 1844 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was buried in Necropolis Cemetery, Liverpool, Lancashire, England. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  6. 13.  Mary Ann Holliwell was born on 12 Jun 1810 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England (daughter of George Holliwell and Sarah Trellford); died on 27 Sep 1844 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was buried in Necropolis Cemetery, Liverpool, Lancashire, England.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: LH6P-QR5
    • Initiatory (LDS): 5 Feb 1885, LOGAN

    Children:
    1. 6. Joseph Greaves was born on 22 Feb 1832 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died on 19 Jun 1904 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried on 22 Jun 1904 in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.
    2. James Greaves was christened on 5 Oct 1834 in St. Michael and All Angels, Ashton-under-Lyne, Lancashire, England; died on 6 Jun 1886 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England.
    3. Henry Greaves was born in 1836 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England.
    4. Sarah Greaves was born in 1838 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was christened on 26 Feb 1838 in St. Peter's Church, Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died on 5 Jan 1845; was buried on 5 Jan 1845 in Church of St. Peter Mancroft, Norwich, Norfolk, England.
    5. Lucy Greaves was born in 1842 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died on 25 Dec 1848.

  7. 14.  Henry Cluley was christened on 18 Jan 1807 in Walsgrave-on-Sowe, Warwickshire, England (son of Henry Cluley and Sarah Smith); died on 19 Aug 1840 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was buried on 23 Aug 1840 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: LKVY-Z94
    • Occupation: 4 Mar 1827, Liverpool, Lancashire, England; Shoe Maker
    • Initiatory (LDS): 18 Jan 1928, LOGAN

    Henry married Catherine Threlfall on 4 Mar 1827 in St. Peter's Church, Liverpool, Lancashire, England. Catherine (daughter of Joseph Threlfall and Nancy Thorley) was born in 1805 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died in 1919. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  8. 15.  Catherine Threlfall was born in 1805 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England (daughter of Joseph Threlfall and Nancy Thorley); died in 1919.

    Other Events and Attributes:

    • FamilySearch ID: LHPC-LJT
    • Residence: 1851, Liverpool, Lancashire, England
    • Initiatory (LDS): 5 Feb 1997, BOUNT

    Children:
    1. John Cluley was born on 17 Jul 1829 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was christened on 2 Aug 1829 in St. Peter's Church, Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died in Everton, Lancashire, England; was buried on 8 Mar 1830 in Everton, Lancashire, England.
    2. 7. Sarah Priscilla Cluley was born on 13 Feb 1831 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was christened on 1 Apr 1831 in Church of Our Lady and Saint Nicholas, Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died on 13 Apr 1865 in Logan, Cache, Utah, United States; was buried in Logan City Cemetery, Cache, Utah, United States.
    3. Ann Cluley was christened on 2 Jan 1828 in St. Peter's Church, Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died in Everton, Lancashire, England; was buried on 26 Nov 1828 in Everton, Lancashire, England.
    4. Joseph Cluley was christened on 28 Jun 1835 in St. Peter's Church, Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died in Everton, Lancashire, England; was buried on 21 Feb 1836 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England.
    5. Elizabeth Cluley was christened on 13 Feb 1837 in St. Peter's Church, Liverpool, Lancashire, England; was buried on 5 Mar 1837 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England.
    6. Henry Cluley was christened on 6 May 1838 in St. Peter's Church, Liverpool, Lancashire, England; died on 24 Feb 1839; was buried on 27 Feb 1839 in Liverpool, Lancashire, England.